facebook status msgs on relationships

i really liked these status msgs.. when i thought about it.. yes, they are true.

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Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They’re trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.


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When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising.

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pardesh se chitti { letter from abroad}

its such a good feeling when you get a letter in your hand. its amazing. it engulfs the love of the sender when you actually catch it in your hand. the happiness in your face changes when you actually hold the envelope and tear it open, then for your surprise whats inside surprises you.

It might not be a simple letter when its sent in an envelope. so when you see and pull it out from inside, for your surprise, it turns out to be more than what you have expected. this letter was sent by my girlfriend and wife. someone who wanted to show her love through a letter. i would call it a love letter since it has all the emotional expressions that she wants to express it to me.

   

It doesnt have the normal salutation of it doesnt end with the normal ending of what might be an official love letter ending. Its more spontaneous. Its more written in different seatings in different spaces. The subject matter was given utmost important while writing. it was particularly noticed that she didnt want the matter to be lost while she ended one part and started writing another paragraph in different space and time.

This is one of the precious moments in life. I would cherish it all my life. And why? Because its simply great to get something like this. Something which is different and which shows the matchless love which is overflowing out of her mind through the words. She might feel she has written alot. or may be the words dont mean too much at times, but for me.. all of them are precious :)

Love you with lots of love my love :)

and God bless you abundantly

DESIRE and FEAR

There is a difference between DESIRE and FEAR. 

Desire is the wish or expression to do something good or obtaining something about our future. its related with the positive things in life. its not directly related with the future. But it sheds light on the things that a person wants to make it possible.

Fear is the a distressed emotion. A fear is caused due to unknown dangers that the mind thinks about and spins it in the mind so that we believe things will happen worse to us. its a feeling of something bad going to happen to us. Its always related with the negative things. a fear can also be linked to the future even though it happens in the present. Mostly all the fears are about the future.

a desire and fear can act as two different emotions in a human being. desire stays the same. sometimes the desires of our lives just multiply and we put on new things with it. just to make our lives beautiful in the time to come.

making oneself gripped with fear happens due to lot of external circumstances. either things that would be happening around us or the things happening to our loved ones. one of the examples is, people thinking whether their loves wont be there with them in some important occasions or time of their life. the fear mainly comes automatically due to certain factors that rule our lives concerning our daily life. We see them going through some difficulty and the fear comes in our minds.

this doesn't mean that it will happen. it also doesn't mean that our fears have to come true.. Just imagine if all our fears come true, then we would always keep on fearing because its mostly self inflammatory. only a few of them are induced by others. Those are considered to be external factors. But its mostly the interplay of our mind.

fear doesn't necessary should have a direct relationship with desires or aim in our lives. it can subside with the actual things happening in our life or it can be subsided by giving confidence to the mind that the fears are useless. e.g. standing at the edge of a high rise building doesn't make u see death. its the fear that happens in the mind which makes us think about the possible death that can happen by falling from there. if we remove it, we would stand firm. many people kill fear inside them by telling their minds that it wont happen.

Many people do tasks which are not possible if the fear was there in their minds. The ultimate desire of doing something leads them to shed all their fears and do the thing which they aim for. It makes them more willing to just focus on the desire or aim and go forward with it. It makes them successful in their lives. Sometimes it makes them Heroes. Heroes and heroines in real life.

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"forever for you my love"

the word forever, can be taken so lightly. But its actually not. it pertains to something that goes on and on. when a lover tells this. it means a lot to the other person. it means that the lover is expecting his/her presence in his/her lover's life till time the world ends.. or till they are even alive... or may be after death.. when the spirits are called above.

the love remains. out of everything else, only one thing that would remain in this world is "love". quote from Bible "And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love" - 1 Corinthians 13:13

i started hating love stories

especially after whatever happened, whenever i see a romantic movie, when i see the affairs getting successful, it hurts me because of the only reason that there was something which didn't happen in my life. So i almost skipped all the movies which even had a topic or romance for the past 3 months. I had almost stopped watching movies now. the only movies i watched during these times are "The passion of Christ" and "Inception".

I hope this will change. today i am gonna watch a comedy called Khatta-meeta by Priyadarshan. lets see how it turns out. i dont have idea that for how long i will continue to stop watching movies like this. I have to come out of this rejection and guilt syndrome. Otherwise this wont let me live a normal life.